6/8/17 9:04 PM

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Beginning of Summer FUN

Beej & Chris

Okay, so I have pretty much gave up on catching up on the blog. I will try to keep going back and adding different posts here and there; but for the most part I am going to just start where I am and try to continue weekly or every other week on a blog to recap some fun things we did that week.

Last year for Christmas Grandma and Grandpa (Pumpkin) gave us a karaoke machine. The kids love it. Ashlynn especially loves singing the songs from the new movie Moana. Ashlynn has so much personality coming out recently; sometimes its crazy and sometimes its just a lot of fun. 
Kaylee also loves to sing. She likes "performing" in front of people. She get's nervous, but is a lot more brave and willing to get up in front of people than I ever could as a kid. For one of my YW Mia Maid lessons awhile back I asked Kaylee if she could sing the song "Gethsemane" to my class. My class has around 18 mia maids along with 4 leaders, and Kaylee not only sang but she brought the Spirit into that room so quickly. It was such an amazing experience. 

Connor also has quite the talent in singing but he doesn't like all the attention. He does really well when he participates in Up with Kids singing and acting after a lot of practice in front of the group, but he is not one to volunteer to sing or perform on his own.
For Memorial day this year we met up at my Grandpa Parker's grave and then I took the two older kids to Cherry Hill while BJ stayed home to work on framing the basement. Unfortunately Ashlynn tried to "help" daddy out more than he needed and put a screw in his saw while he wasn't looking so when he turned it on, the blade got ruined. He couldn't go buy a new saw blade though because I had the car with Ashlynn's carseat. Needless to say he didn't get to work on the basement that much until we got home. 




The kids were excited to start our summer out with good ole' Cherry Hill.

We are just so excited to enjoy this summer after everything that happened last summer. Here are some pictures of the kids at their end of school water day with their class. Since we are walking distance to the school I took Ashlynn over and snapped a few pictures of the kids while they were playing in the field.
L-R (Zoe Johnson, Chase Christensen, Jaxton, and Taylor is facing the opposite way.
Connor and Jed trying some tug a war

Kaylee and her friend Saydie all wet after running through the sprinklers while playing a game.
For BJ's birthday this year we invited a few family members to come over before the kids choir concert for some cake and ice cream.




No this is not just a birthday tradition to eat ice cream from the container. BJ does this almost everynight. He has a routine where he scrapes the ice cream off the top and makes it an even flat area, then when I come in and take a scoop of ice cream he has to eat more to make it all even again. He got this from his dad, who still does this from what I understand.

The kids did great at their choir concert. The room was hot hot with no AC and Ashlynn was crazy running around, but we made it through and had a good time.


We even got to enjoy having Uncle Spencer there to support. He had left for his mission not too long ago, but was suffering from some depression and other things he needed to come home for. We sure love Spencer...especially the kids as you can see.

Uncle Nate decided to make it a tradition to break your foot at the beginning of the summer and did it almost exactly a year after I had done it. Such a bummer. He broke it playing basketball but luckily didn't have to get surgery on it. No fun at all!


The kids are going to love this picture when they are older I'm sure. Kaylee got a bath bomb at her friend Emmie Scott's birthday party and her siblings were dying to try it out as well. So Kaylee so kindly shared a few minutes with them in the bath. They only stayed in the bath together for a little bit before I had them get out and let Kaylee enjoy her bath on her own. I'm glad they are still pretty good friends and are willing to share. I hope that continues.

The kids earned a free frozen yogurt from reading extra books in school, so we took those coupons in on the day they were having a fundraiser for the school and got frozen yogurt as a family. This picture makes it look like we were having a blast, but shortly after this a lot of whining occurred and then a lot of wind happened. I then got frustrated and put everyone in the car where we then enjoyed the rest of the yogurt at home while watching a show.
Pictures of their last day of school vs the pictures below of their first day of school. They have sure grown a lot in this past year.




Ashlynn and I enjoying a Popsicle while the kids are at school.



For Father's day daddy requested that we all go camping and fishing together.
I wasn't too excited to go camping because I had been not feeling well with the pregnancy. I had a pretty bad scare with bleeding and the doctor told me to take it easy. I took time off work and layed around a lot. BJ gathered pretty much everything for us to go, so all I had to do was pack my things and get in the car pretty much. He made it a lot more doable.


Ashlynn and I took pictures together while daddy and the kids were fishing. The high water made me a little nervous. But BJ and the kids did great about being safe.


No fish were caught, but the kids had a good time trying with their very own fishing poles.

I can't speak enough high words about this man. He is such a good dad to these kids. He is patient and always finding ways to teach them and have fun with them.

Here is a few pictures of BJ singing "Going on a bear hunt" with the kids and getting them all giggly.
By far the two most favorite things the kids enjoy while camping is roasting things over the fire (hot dogs and marshmallows), and hanging out in the tent. These kids were in heaven as you can see.

Checking out our garden this year. We planted raised garden beds next to the house and planted some carrots, peas, and tomatoes. Everything did really well. This picture doesn't show very well how good the carrots did because we picked this one too early.



Kaylee came home from the last day of school with her shirt all colored on. I wasn't too mad since it wasn't her nicest shirts, but I will remember to take note of what shirt I let her wear on her last day for the end of this next school year. Kaylee was soo worried about me washing this shirt because some of the names might get washed off, so she had me take a picture beforehand.
My belly bump is starting to show. Here is a picture of me at 16 weeks 4 days. At 13 weeks we had a HUGE scare and thought for sure were were going to miscarry this baby. I was getting Ashlynn out of the car and felt a gush. I ran to the bathroom and found out I was bleeding and it wasn't a small amount. I was trying so hard to think straight and not totally lose it, but my mind was soo fuzzy and it felt like the room was spinning. I tried to put Ashlynn down for a nap, but my mind couldn't focus. I let the kids watch a show on the tv and went and texted BJ and my neighbor. I then called the doctor's office who told me they could get me in for an ultrasound. I called my mom and through tears I somehow got out what had happened. She sent my grandma over to be with me and the kids and BJ got home shortly after. The drive to the hospital was tough. We both thought we had miscarried and were really distraught about it. It felt like we had just barely let our guard down and then BAM everything was going wrong. When we got to the ultrasound and they saw the baby's heart beat and that everything looked good, both BJ and I cried happy tears. I was still nervous of what was going to happen since we didn't know why I had started bleeding. The nurse was not very helpful and kept telling me that it was a "threatened miscarriage" and there is nothing we can do to stop from miscarrying and whatever is going to happen will happen. THAT did not help me at all. Obviously I knew I couldn't stop a miscarriage, but hearing that over and over again just made me more stressed and sad. I took time off work and really took it easy. I had some spotting on and off a few days later that stressed me out, but it finally calmed down. At this picture I was 16 weeks and starting to gain hope again that maybe things were going to be okay. It was quite the roller coaster of events.
At this point in the pregnancy I was craving a lot of salads and at them pretty much everyday.
Here is a picture of Kaylee suffering eating the beef hot dog she did not want.
BJ taught the kids to plug their nose when they were eating something they didn't like. Poor Kaylee was not too happy about dinner tonight.
The kids helped a lot while I was taking it easy after the scare with the pregnancy. They came out and were weeding for me. Such good helpers.




5/28/17 9:49 AM

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Pregnancy Update

Beej & Chris

Good news and bad news. After the bleeding that happened last Tuesday I had some leftover brown spotting Wednesday, and then Friday night when I got up to pee in the middle of the night when I wiped I saw bright red blood. My heart immediately started racing like before. The bad news being the extra spotting after I thought I was in the clear, but the good news is I haven't had any bleeding since. I have been so so so worried though. I then started to have some pretty bad back pain and worried I had a UTI or kidney infection. I called the nurse who didn't really tell me much, but to just watch it. She thought maybe the constipation I was having was causing the red spotting and the brown spotting just indicated old blood.

I constantly worried about every little twinge I felt and quickly ran to the bathroom to check for more bleeding. I would even turn on the light in the middle of the night just to make sure I didn't miss anything. I finally got to a week after the initial bleed and felt like I could do a little more, since they told me to take it easy for a week. I still took it pretty easy, but I finished planting the last few flowers we had left since I knew BJ wouldn't have time to do it himself. After I finished and went inside and into the bathroom I felt a lot more discharge/brown spotting. It wasn't as much as that first time, but it was pretty close. Luckily it wasn't red, but it still made me so nervous. Again, my heart starts racing so fast. This kept happening at the time I was about to put Ashlynn down for a nap. I put her down and put a show on for Connor and then did the calling and waiting on hold forever to talk to the nurse. The nurse said she would talk to the On Call Doctor since my doctor wasn't in the office that day, and call me back. They decided to go ahead and have me go in for an ultrasound. My amazing neighbor and one of my YW Marissa gets home schooled the last half of the day each day, so she was already home at 1230 when I texted and asked her to come over later on that afternoon. BJ met me at the ultrasound. They were 30 min late coming to get me and my bladder was full, but I survived ;). The ultrasound again showed the baby kicking and moving around. Heartbeat was around 147. I tried to get the tech to tell us the gender, but the baby had his/her legs crossed so you couldn't see anything.





Later on that day I looked online and read the ultrasound results myself which showed a "Venous Lake". Of course the doctor didn't call me until the end of the day the following day; so I had a lot of time to research 'venous lakes' and freak myself out. When the doctor finally called me (btw this was the first time I had talked to her for this whole pregnancy and I am now 14 1/2 weeks pregnant) she eased a lot of my anxiety. She told me when she sees "venous lake" on ultrasounds; she only gets a little concerned if the patient has had previous c-sections because it can possibly affect delivery, but even then she said she doesn't get too worried about it. Needless to say I have since just been taking it easy but also doing things around the house. More so than I was the previous week, but not back into full force.

Yesterday I reached 15 weeks! I have been feeling the babies little kicks more and more lately. Yesterday at exactly 15 weeks I was sick sick sick. I thought when you hit the second trimester that the nausea eased up a bit, but instead it got worse for me yesterday. I worked on organizing my closet and it literally took me ALL DAY long. I had to keep taking breaks laying down due to the nausea. BJ was amazing and watched the kids while I worked outside setting up the water system for the flowers we had just planted, fertilized the yard, and took Kaylee to a birthday party. I know I say it a lot on here; but I am so blessed to have such a supportive, hardworking, and amazing husband/father. BJ sure spoils me.

Well as far as the pregnancy goes. We are hopeful it continues and my body can stay healthy for this really healthy baby girl/boy. I was having a lot of brown discharge constantly throughout the day but it has slowed down these past few days which has eased my anxiety a lot. Last night I was craving a suddenly salad mix so I went to the store at 930 pm and bought 6 boxes ha ha. I saw green olives and wanted to buy some soo badly, but they were like $5 a bottle and I couldn't justify it. They also had a lot of different types of olives and I didn't know which one to get. I just wanted the ones my parents used to buy since I knew I liked those ones. Here is a picture of what I ended up eating for dinner that night at 1030pm. I was too sick when everyone else at earlier that night and just had some toast and crackers then. It was delicious. Pretty much the only thing that helps with my sickness is eating, but if I ate as much as I was sick I would gain soo much weight.
As far as other pregnancy cravings go. I have been LOVING ranch flavored wheat thins and am just barley starting to crave more sweets and pickles. Well, there is the update. The kids are excited. Connor wants us to have a girl so he can name her after his kindergarten girlfriend Taylor. Kaylee wants a boy so she doesn't have to share anything else with another sister ha ha. Ashlynn still can't figure out where the baby is and why she can't see it when she lifts up my shirt. ha ha.